Community guidelines
Code of Conduct
How we show up for each other.
Our foundation
Flourish is built on mutual aid: the idea that we are stronger when we support each other. These guidelines exist to keep this space safe, respectful, and welcoming for everyone.
“Solidarity, not charity. Asking is as important as giving.” - Dean Spade
Our principles
Solidarity, not charity
We give and receive as equals. Asking for help is not a weakness - it's how communities work. No one here is above or below anyone else.
Respect and kindness
We lift each other up. We operate from a place of solidarity and tolerance for all. We know that people have different needs and circumstances, and we meet them where they are - without judgement.
Open and honest communication
We let people know if we can't show up or are running late. We're honest when a day or time doesn't work. We understand that plans change depending on people's circumstances.
Assume the best
Be charitable towards each other. Assume good intentions. We all could be doing a lot of other things - the fact that we're here means we share common ground.
Everyone contributes differently
Some of us can give money, some clothing, some food, some rides, some time, some art, some advice. What we can give may be different, but it's all valued and needed.
Always learning
We are open to learning and becoming better members of our communities. We learn from our mistakes and make amends when we cause harm.
What's not okay
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Hate speech, discrimination, or harassment of any kind
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Rudeness or shaming towards people who post frequently or ask for help often
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Commercial activity, advertising, or selling
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Sharing other people's personal information
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Posting anything illegal or unsafe
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Using this space to recruit for political campaigns, MLMs, or religious proselytizing
When someone needs more support
If someone is asking for essential items repeatedly, we reach out with care - not judgement. We connect them with resources that can help long-term, like local community services and organizations. Mutual aid is a bridge, not a replacement for systemic support.
Moderation
Flourish is moderated by volunteers from the community. When someone violates these guidelines, we start with conversation and education. We believe in accountability and making amends.
Repeated violations or severe harm (hate speech, threats, harassment) may result in removal. We have no tolerance for intolerance.
A living document
This code of conduct was written collaboratively by the people building Flourish. It will grow and change as we do. If you have suggestions, we want to hear them.